Alright, alright, so you young folks wanna know about, you know, that stuff? And you want it… fun? And Christian-like? Well, I ain’t no fancy preacher or nothin’, but I’ve been around the block a few times, seen a thing or two. So, listen up, and maybe you’ll learn somethin’.
First off, bein’ married and, you know, doin’ the deed, it’s supposed to be good. God made it that way, far as I can tell. But sometimes, things get… stale. Like old bread, you know? So, you gotta spice it up a bit, make it like fresh-baked, somethin’ you wanna sink your teeth into.
Now, for you Christian couples, some folks get all tied up in knots about what’s okay and what ain’t. But look, it ain’t about dirty pictures or fancy contraptions, if you ain’t comfortable with that stuff. It’s about connectin’, bein’ close, and havin’ a good time together. It’s about showin’ love, the kind that sticks, the kind that makes you feel good inside and out. That’s what the good Lord wants, I reckon.
So, here’s some ideas, real simple, nothin’ fancy, just stuff to get you thinkin’ outside the box, or maybe inside the box, if you catch my drift.
- Talk to each other! I mean, really talk. Not just about the weather or the price of eggs. Tell each other what you like, what you don’t like. Don’t be shy, you’re married! If somethin’ feels good, say so! If somethin’ don’t, speak up! It ain’t mind readin’, it’s lovin’.
- Try new things. Maybe you always do it the same old way, same time, same place. Shake it up! Try a different room, a different time of day. Light some candles, play some soft music… not that head-bangin’ stuff the young folks listen to, somethin’ nice. Maybe put on some of that gospel, somethin’ that makes your heart sing.
- Role-Playin’. Now, this might sound silly, but it can be fun. Pretend you’re meetin’ for the first time, or you’re on a secret mission. Use your imagination! Ain’t nothin’ wrong with a little pretendin’, makes things more excitin’, keeps the spark alive. Just keep it clean, you know, nothin’ too wild or disrespectful.
- Games! No, I don’t mean checkers. There’s all sorts of games you can play… Like, you know, blindfoldin’ and teasin’ each other. Or whisperin’ sweet nothin’s. Or maybe playin’ cards, and every time you lose a hand, you gotta, you know, take off an article of clothin’. Just keep it light and fun.
- Massage. Give each other a good rubdown. Start with the shoulders, then the back, then… well, you get the idea. It’s a good way to relax and connect. And it feels darn good, let me tell ya!
- Plan a “date night” at home. Get the kids to bed early, cook a nice dinner together, maybe put on some nice clothes. Then, you know, make the most of it! Sometimes, just treatin’ each other special makes all the difference. It ain’t just about the bedroom, it’s about the whole relationship.
- Little surprises. Leave a little note, send a flirty text (if you know how to use them fancy phones), give a little unexpected kiss. It’s the small things that keep the fire burnin’. Makes you feel young again, all giddy and giggly.
- Go on an adventure! Maybe take a weekend trip, just the two of you. Go hiking, camping, or just stay in a cozy cabin. Changin’ the scenery can do wonders for your… you know… connection. Get out of the house, breath fresh air, and find some quiet time together.
- Read together. Now, I ain’t talkin’ about the newspaper. Get yourselves some good books, maybe somethin’ about love and marriage from a Christian perspective. It ain’t all about the physical, ya gotta nourish your minds and souls too.
- Pray together. Thank God for each other and for the love you share. Ask Him to bless your marriage and your, um, intimacy. Prayin’ together makes you closer, and that closeness spills over into everythin’ else.
So, there you have it. Just a few ideas from an old lady who’s seen a thing or two. Remember, the most important thing is to love each other, respect each other, and have fun! And keep God at the center of it all. He made you for each other, and He wants you to be happy. Now go on, get outta here, and have some fun, you hear?
And one last thing: If you’re havin’ serious problems, don’t be afraid to talk to a pastor or a counselor. They can help you work things out. Ain’t no shame in askin’ for help. We all need a little help sometimes.
Tags: Christian Couples, Sex Ideas, Marriage, Intimacy, Relationship Advice, Love, Fun, Games, Role-Playing, Communication
